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Life stuff: Now that I'm done with the frenzy of decluttering and year-end journaling, I'm back to floating aimlessly through life. All my energy in February was reserved for showing up to (and I guess mobilizing) get-togethers for joyful and sad circumstances, crossing a superficial but necessary medical procedure off my list of mental loads, and despairing about work (as one does).

Personal details

I have a lot of identity baggage for a combination of reasons, but I think attending a wake (of a friend's parent) was kind of affirming since everyone else was equally unsure and confused about the practices... There was some (friendly) kerfuffle on how to take our leave because I was raised to leave without saying goodbye to the host, while my friends thought it was rude to not say goodbye... We all assumed this was a Chinese thing, but well, I Googled it afterwards, and it's apparently a Filipino thing!? That my friends (maybe because they're city people) just didn't grow up with!?!? Anyway I think in the year 2024 it's easier to communicate about these things... and no one ever said you couldn't send text messages. XD

Re: surgery - it was a huge relief to be billed only the amount I "set aside" for it—the amount I had in my debit card at that time; the gross amount nearly gave me a heart attack. I would have paid even less if my brother (my surgeon lol) didn't insist on the biopsy even though he'd said it was benign. I guess it's a small price to pay for an otherwise stress-free experience (if I had to pick a place to grow a cyst and have it excised, that might be the least awkward or inconvenient spot for it, 10/10), and finally getting some use out of my Philhealth premiums.


Books

  • Caroline B. Cooney, "Goddess of Yesterday"
  • Nagata Kabi, "My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness” (also known on the internet as A Report on How I was So Lonely I Went to A Lesbian Brothel)
  • Xi Zixu, "My Five Elements Lack You"

    TV

  • She Loves to Cook, She Loves to Eat (S1)

    Movies

  • Hunger (2023) (or, as [personal profile] lessonsinescapology translated, "Hungry Person, Game of Thirst" XD)

    Art recs (found on Twitter)

  • Cat Day art:虎の威を借る by [twitter.com profile] YuzuKato2
  • Cat Day art: The Kiss / The Embrace (Gustav Klimt parody) by [twitter.com profile] naruco70 (a personal favorite)
  • Comic (LNY): Dragon Whiskers by Jean Wei/[twitter.com profile] cannedcabbage
  • Comic: Wrapped in Time by [twitter.com profile] kulasjalea
  • Comic: I Went to a Mixer and a Handsome Girl Showed Up by [twitter.com profile] SkyeKurisu
  • 1993 Philippine Stamps: The "Thinking of You" dog stamps (below) went viral on Twitter some months ago. So cute!
    A dog looking longingly at a calendar page



    And here's a new Nissin (of course) Donbei Udon ad featuring Sephiroth and Cloud, with English subs by [twitter.com profile] aitaikimochi. In this reprised FF7R sequence, Sephiroth has fox ears and praises Cloud for being a good boy.


    Somewhat related: I didn't know this was a thing before, but [personal profile] lassarina is hosting Kiss Battle 2024, an annual Final Fantasy fandom event (which is not all about kissing, I'm discovering).
  • Date: 2024-03-01 01:03 pm (UTC)
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    Thanks for the art recs! I especially loved 虎の威を借る and I Went to a Mixer and a Handsome Girl Showed Up. :D

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